And the worst part about it is he's not kidding.White men want POC to be their self-esteem enhancement drug at their expense. He wanted a Chinese woman to be his personal human version of Viagra.
Well at least a woman doesn't have to guess what his intentions are. He put it in writing!
I'll give this guy some credit :he did said that his letter would probably come of as weird or crazy. Still, he seems like a very ridiculous and creepy person.I know that the creator of her website don't feel good about weirdos like "Ryan" writing her those kinds of obscene letters like that. I mean,its just sick.
True; he was upfront. I do give him kudos for that.
Oh my God in Heaven. I'm not even Chinese, and I want to take a bleach bath after a few sentences. EUGAH! >_<You know that mental filter that prevents one from making an ass of one's self? I'm realizing some people don't have those.
Oh my God in Heaven. I'm not even Chinese, and I want to take a bleach bath after a few sentences. EUGAH!Right there with you.
Oh hey, I remember this racist dudebro. It's so nice when idiots are this forthcoming about being useless pieces of shit, especially when no one asked. I feel for the sanity of whoever received this little gem.
I feel for the sanity of whoever received this little gem.You can just imagine the look on her face when she read this shit.
I love how not self-reflective he is...like, wouldn't he be able to make the connection between losing his job and developing and "intense interest" in having Chinese women tell him he's great? It's a fairly straightforward thing. Just...
I know! He seems to have checked the screed for spelling errors and the like, but he seems to have missed the obvious cause and effect.Also, personalised talking love dolls exist, right? I'm just hoping this charmer finds himself one instead of trying to inflict his rubbish on any other human beings. He seems intent on seeing it as a matter of "sexual preference", rather than the basis of a doctor's referral for a shrink!
A Fake Response to A Real Life IdiotSo..... This message may come off as realistic or truthful, but I'm going to be real and tell it like it is.A little bit about me: black female, from Florida, college educated, degree in Theatre Performance/Education, been unemployed for a couple months now cuz I graduated college and the job ment for students.I haven't been able to find work right now but it's cool cuz I'm chilling with my family and about to get employed overseas, so no worries and well...During the same time, I've developed an intense...disgust in white people especially Americans. Specifically ,I am so turned off by your very nature/persona/appearance. I can't get pass the pasty zombie like skin that we are told is super attractive/desirable all around the world. I can't really be bothered that your women think that they are a prize to be fought over ;when in reality many are malnourished, uneducated ( being educated doesn't always come from an institution of learning) spineless, weak, brainwashed, greedy little Beckys ( sorry all are Beckys until proven otherwise). I would never want to look like a Becky cuz they just ain't attractive and I'm not sure why Any man would be attracted to flat behinds and pasty white skin. I truly feel disgusted when you white males look at me. Ahh yucky icky, I feel like a nasty creature has just violated my very being, talk about nauseating. It is quite funny how just about every culture calls your people demons or devils since it seems like y'all came from Lucifer's sperm. I love how you praise when y'all win a war/battle but fail to realize that you are murderers of your own people. That's why I love history; let me tell you why. See y'all think when you write history, it is to give praise/acknowledgment of your great feats/accomplishments but in reality;it tells the sick/sad/depraved/twisted nature of y'all and those like you.it shows to anyone who pays attention how truly crazy and sick you have been and continue to be. It is that first line of defense to people with street smart and some common sense to Never trust/ get too close/put down their guard in front of y'all cuz you will strike like the snakes that you so desperately try to hide in your DNA. True story time: my first experience with racism was when I went to CCD (Catholic bible school for children, still cracks me up whenever I think about it, I think it was in either 3rd or 4th grade). I'm suppose to be learning about Jesus and his love/mercy/acceptance of everyone but yet I get called a niggar, now ain't that a hoot.But I digress...back to my love letter, I would try to date yall BUT I'm not dumb, deaf or blind to your nature and the fakeness of your very existence.I truly feel empowered to know that not only will I Never date y'all nor marry; I have so many good looking MoC to choose from who share my viewpoint when it comes you and your brethen. I saw that you are white and just thought you might want a real, fresh and honest response for once.All the Best :)
AAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA!!!! *hystericalI know it's a fake response but I'm glad you included this: "being educated doesn't always come from an institution of learning"
I wanna make a T-shirt out of your response....**BRAVO**
*thunderous handclaps *Ain't that the truth? (Referring to the statement)
The word which sticks out to me the most is "empowered."In Season 4 of Buffy, Joss Whedon did a whole segment of an episode on how people misuse the word "empowering." One of my favorite episodes of Frasier reveals that he went into psychiatry to distance himself from a world which frightened him, and if he were to have his career stripped away, it would leave behind only a scared little boy.This guy here puts me in mind of Abagond's Wall of the White Self and how fragile the white American ego is.In case anyone is confused, having someone lie to you in bed is not "empowering." To become empowered is to gain power; being lied to is not gaining power. It's right on par with drowning your sorrows or eating your feelings.All "Ryan" has done is develop a coping mechanism to deal with his feelings of powerlessness and irrelevance...and yes, inadequacy.
Apparently there are parallel examples of this where black men espouse the "virtues" of Brazilian women (e.g. hookers they pay while on vacation) who know how to take care of men, mainly when compared to evil black women you expect them to have jobs and stuff like that.As you said, it's not about empowering. It's about being delusional and paying for a fantasy that this idiot thinks applies to all women who look one way regardless of origin/circumstance.
"... how fragile the white American ego is."I can't get over how true this is. I'm no longer surprised at how quickly I become a "b****" or an "n*****" after muttering so much as a word in opposition to the white dominant view.Back to the original post, if he wants to hear all these things so badly, why doesn't he just turn on the television, read a magazine, walk down the street, etc., like everybody else??
You know what's really telling? The fact that this guy could even get a date with an Asian girl to begin with. It's like how amerikkkan businesses are more likely to hire a white guy WITH a criminal record compared to an equally qualified black guy WITHOUT a criminal record. This white guy who clearly has some fucked up shit in his head has more success with women than I do, someone who must be perfect and still gets nothing return.
Ballisto, you come and go. How do I contact you directly?
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